BROKEN
HOME
Broken home is the
designation for a family who is not harmony, warmth, and no visible affection
between family members with each other (families are destroyed). lot of the
effects that will occur because of this broken home. And the victims are the
children themselves, children do not get enough attention from both parents, do
not know what the love of a mother and father. This is definitely going to be a
big problem in the future, especially on the psychological and emotional
development of children. And here, some real impact induced Mom and Dad are not
responsible
The
first is development of the Child Emotion,emotion is a
psychological situation is a subjective experience that can be seen from the
reaction of the face and body. Broken home made terpramen children affected,
the effect of which seem to be clearly in the child's emotional development was
made into a moody, slacker (be aggressive) who want to seek attention of parents
/ others. Find identity in an atmosphere of households overlap and less
serasi.Broken home is something to be avoided, so that the children do not
become emotionally disturbed.
The
second is the child will tend to do negative things out of habit.Broken
home children have a tendency to commit deviant behaviors such as bullying,
rebellious, apathetic attitude towards the environment, being destructive to
themselves and their environment, for example by starting smoking, drinking,
gambling, and free sex. They do such deviations without ever knowing what is
good and bad. Just like a child crying and took her mother's arms, but he did
not get it, therefore the child of a broken home would be grateful to anyone
who wants to hug him, and sometimes it is a manifestation of the mother 'drugs'
and 'free sex'.
The
last is academic problems.Largest
external motivation factor for children is a family. And when families
experience a dysfunctional broken home then the child will tend to be lazy and
unmotivated rendah.hasil berprestas the research conducted by Aji Baroto stated
that students' motivation from a broken home is lower than the motivation to
study of intact families.
Child is a valuable
asset, the future generation has the right to grow and develop properly and all
of it depends on the family. It is appropriate parents realize that they have a
need that is not limited to material needs, but also the need for love and
attention of their parents. Although there are some broken home who survive and not to deviate, but parents should
be able to consider the interests and rights of children
when going to do something. So, we have to care our family so that there is no
feel broken home.
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